Are they enemies or allies? Are they dropping bombs or supplies? Is he on my side or the other? Does she support or oppose me?

Oh, they just fly over.

In most cases, people neither care nor even notice you. Only you care about these problems, just like people only care about themselves. Either people support or oppose you, then what? You will just stop doing what you want to do? Are you begging for their permissions? You don’t need one. You thought it matters but it doesn’t. If we needed a “yes” to take each step, we’d be still crawling.